Ronda Rousey’s mother Dr. AnnMarie De Mars is the first American to ever win the world championship in Judo. When her daughter lost at UFC 207, she offered her thoughts in her terrific blog, and in an interview with TMZ Sports.
When Rousey lost her title to Holly Holm, she went from being the most interviewed figure in MMA history to one of the least. Rousey was widely criticized for taking the loss so hard, but in her latest blog, Dr. De Mars explained why.
Like every mother and daughter on the face of the earth, Ronda and I don’t always see eye to eye. However, there is one situation where I am pretty certain.
All of those who have criticized Ronda for taking a loss so to heart, for not just ‘shrugging it off’ don’t understand that what made Ronda so successful is that she cares DEEPLY about winning to an extent that I don’t believe the average person can wrap his/her head around.
Caring deeply about something and working your hardest to achieve it doesn’t mean you make the right decisions 100% of the time. Wouldn’t it be a nicer world if it did?
Those of you who want to criticize Ronda, I just want to point out a few things. First of all, I know her better than you and she is a smart, kind, talented, generous, hard-working person.
Second, I’d like to list some of her accomplishments and note that she isn’t yet 30 years old.
•Junior World Judo Champion
•Panamerican Games Judo Gold Medalist
•First American woman in a decade to win a world cup in judo (and then she went on to win several more)
•U.S. Open Gold Medalist
•World Judo Championships Silver Medalist
•Olympic Bronze Medalist
•U.S. Senior National Champion
•First UFC World Champion
•First woman to make a million dollars in martial arts
•Co-authored sports book of the year – My Fight/ Your Fight
•Acted in three movies
That’s just a partial list, but let me suggest that someone who has been world level athlete in two sports, written a best seller, acted in movies and made millions of dollars, all before the age of 30 has a pretty darn good track record. On top of that, Ronda has been part of the USADA drug testing since she was 16 years old, never failed a drug test, always paid her taxes, never been arrested, never been to rehab, has zero divorces, zero DUIs and zero children. While you might think that is to be expected, look how many celebrities (heck, look how many of your neighbors) can say that.
I am very proud of my daughter.
As my other wonderful daughter, Maria, told her, “We love you just as much 10 minutes after every fight as we did in the 10 minutes before.”
Edit: Since so many people asked me “What do you mean zero children? Children aren’t a bad thing.” I agree. I have four. I meant that she did not have children before she was able and willing to raise them.
Dr. De Mars also spoke to TMZ after the fight.
The stringer asked how Rousey felt.
“She’s sad and disappointed like anyone would be in the circumstance,” said her mother. “So I think she’s just trying to think about it right now, which is what I think anybody would do.”
Then Dr. De Mars was asked if Rousey was going to retire.
“I think making snap decisions like that is probably not the best idea,” she replied, accurately. “So I don’t know.”
Dr. De Mars was then asked what she hoped her daughter would do in this regard.
“I would like to see her retire,” she replied. “I would’ve liked to have seen her retire a long time ago. … Who wants to see their kid getting hit?”
“She’s got a lot of talent and a lot of other things – movies, writing, producing. She’s really, really smart. I told her that in the beginning when she first started this. I said, ‘You’re smart and beautiful, let the stupid people get punched in the face.’
“Sorry stupid people.”
